Oct 06

Does this make my butt look big?

The first day I was free to shop, I went down to the Max Mara store in Pacific Place and bought a pair of black dress pants. My new outlook on shopping is buy the best quality I can afford, and have very few things. I was very interested, too, in Sally’s idea to only buy things that are needed, combined with Tim Gunn’s (I love him) advice to have basics that fit well. That following day, after my trip to Max Mara, I went to New York. I had heard about this store called Karen Millen, she makes clothes for curvy women. Her shop is in Soho, but while there they told me they also have a store in the new Bravern in Bellevue. I bought 4 items there, a skirt, a vest, a sweater and a jacket. Again…all black. They fit me perfectly and no tailoring was required. Yes, I have hips, and the skirt makes no apologies for my shape.

I also bought 2 James Perse t-shirts, one gray and one teal. Last week I went to Patagonia and bought a teal rain coat, 3/4 length, with a hood. No more denying that I live in Seattle and it rains here. Might as well stay dry and be in a color other than black. I am happy with my well made basics, and they all can be worn as separates, and dressed up or down. No more crappy clothes, that are poorly made, or sweaters that pill and look awful after one washing. Any suggestions on sweaters?

I also went down to Lulu Lemon and bought a pair of yoga pants and a pink long sleeved running top, and a jog bra.

So, that is what I have so far. It felt like “back to school” shopping because my freedom from TGAAD came in September. The only class I have now is a meditation class in Wallingford, where I show up with baggy pants, a sweat shirt, and shoes that look like baked potatoes. I will save my new clothes for opening nights at the Seattle Rep or ACT or my charity cocktail event at Book It Repertory Theater (Tues Oct 12th). Yes….I had to plug my event for CAIR, so come at 530 and I will pour you a $5.00 drink. You can also get 20% off your ticket for Cider House Rules. I hope to see you there, you can tell me what you think of my new outfit. I think what this diet has taught me is that we shouldn’t buy clothes without a focus, and not just unconsciously buying things just to shop. In the end, too, I think buying quality (as best as a person can afford, even second hand shops) saves money because the clothes last longer. Ok, that is it. I hope you new people can stick with it, it really does change your perceptions for the better.

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Aug 28

Sunday is in 2.5 hours from now. It will be the end of my year long “no shopping for apparel diet”. I said last week that I would go downtown and see what damage I could do. I got a post from a reader saying “Didn’t you learn anything from all of this?” I will say, yes, I did learn something!!!! I learned that I missed shopping with my girlfriends. I actually gave up something I love doing, and it ended up being a great way to learn to appreciate what I have, and really think about what I want. What is the point of giving up chocolate if you never liked chocolate? Are the people on this diet really never going to shop for clothes ever again after the year is up?

Although I have never been an out of control shopper, or freakishly impulsive, it did feel good to enjoy what I have — and take what I wasn’t wearing to the tailor to make it better. If it wasn’t possible to save with the tailor, I gave it away. But I do love a good clothing designer, I love seeing what people are creating, and I love visiting small businesses and seeing what the buyers are presenting. I love women’s apparel.

What ever your reason for starting this whole Sally thing, it will be an interesting year. Too bad stores aren’t open until 11:00 AM on Sundays. I will be downtown with my friends tomorrow, and next week, I will be in New York. I may buy something, or not, but I will be following many of Sally’s rules, combined with Tim Gunn’s Guide to Style rules. Only if I love it and it looks and fits great, and something I need. I will also be sticking to basics. More soon, with photos of what I actually get, if anything!

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