Dec 24

..soooo instead of buying 1 pair of jeans, which is what I totally intended to do…I..err..umm…kind of ended up buying 3 pairs of jeans and a really cool (if I say so myself) pair of red sneakers. Do people still say “sneakers” these days?? Whatever, I’m old okay. Don’t judge me.

This brings me to my next subject: Should I include not buying shoes and accessories into the equation? Or would that simply be too much to cut out of my life at once? I mean, It’s not that I go Cr@ZZYy over shoes and accessories.. I have some self control.. Its just that…I’m unsure that if I cut everything out all at once, will I be more likely to fail or binge? Perhaps it’s as simple as limiting myself to one accessory or pair of shoes a month.

Maybe this way I won’t have that lingering feeling of deprivation hanging over my shoulders..or at the tip of my fingers [hovering ever so precariously over that mouse button]

~Felix Navidad!~

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Dec 22
Sarah F

Time magazine has published an article today on shopping and consumer behavior, which discusses why we make some of the spending choices that we make. Particularly interesting was their discussion of the domino effect when we buy one item and feel the need to buy many more to “go” with it instead of considering returning that pair of shoes, dress, shirt, ect. There has been extensive marketing research done in recent years on consumer behavior and debt in America, and we are getting down to some of the consumer psychology that explains our shopping behaviors. The Great American Apparel Diet is mentioned in this discussion, and the article is incredibly interesting and offers some relevant evaluations of our behavior as consumers.

Check it out! http://www.time.com/time/business/article/0,8599,2039389,00.html

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Dec 21

Okay, so with my last week and a half of technically being able to shop, I am faced with this decision: To shop or NOT to shop?

I think it may be my nerves starting to catch up with me, however I’ve been thinking..should I use these last days to “stock up” on items I already have in my closet but can use more of? For example, in my last post I talked about a pair of jeans I recently bought from AE for $49. In the past, I have never really been a fan of AE jeans as they never fit me very well. But these jeans in particular fit so nicely that it has me questioning whether or not I should purchase another pair…………………………. decisions!

Update! They’re on sale!! For $34.95

But wait, there’s more! You see, there’s this jacket.. and it’s beautiful. It’s something I most definitely don’t have a problem paying full price for and it’s in a wonderful tangerine-ish colour. It would be great for snowshoeing and other outdoor activities as its not too warm and bulky [which is what I'm struggling with in my current arteryx] so I’m playing around with the idea of buying this new one.

The Boyfriend thinks it’s a stupid idea since I bought my current jacket this April, but what do you think??

To buy or not to buy?

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Dec 21

I’ve recently returned from a whirlwind trip to Ontario for a family visit with the boyfriend. Like I’ve said in an earlier post, I don’t have many shopping options here in my town and most of my clothing purchases happen online. So being in “civilization” kind of put me into shopping OVERDRIVE!!! Since I normally don’t have the luxury of being able to pack up and leave town whenever I want, being in any city with endless shopping possibilities is pretty exciting! Even the most minuscule mall can give me a rush!!

One of the reasons I chose TGAAD as my new years resolution was to ease myself into it without feeling too overwhelmed. Also, I figured since we had already planned this trip way far in advance, that I didn’t want to limit myself while on the second trip out of town this year…like I said, I don’t get out much.

So..First things first: Budget, Budget, Budget! I budgeted for the entire trip. I saved up a couple months in advance, made a list of things that I really wanted to buy annnd… I didn’t bring my credit card [that part was pretty easy since it's been sitting pretty in a block of ice in my freezer for the last year and a half].

So as soon as we got into the city[Day 2 of a 15 hour drive and at this point we had been up since 4:30 in the morning], we went straight for the mall. THE WEST EDMONTON MALL!! Oh the convenience! Oh the stores! Oh the humanity!!! Anthropologie! Victorias Secret! H&M! Lululemon!! Ahh there are too many to name! ShoesShoesShoesssssss!!! The one stop shop!

It was great and I loved it, and somehow I managed to buy more accessories [scarves, hats, jewelry, sunglasses..etc] and gifts than actual clothes. In the 17 days we were gone I came home with 2 sweaters; 1 cardigan – $12.99 at Old Navy; 1 long sleeved active shirt (perfect for under my hockey equipment) and a pair of AE jeans $49.50….Huh, go figure. One of the best purchases would have to have been the most darling of egg holders from anthropologie in this fab blue colour..it was something like $16 and I LOVE IT!

TenDays until the real challenge begins. EXCITED MUCH!?!?! xoxo

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Dec 15

I found out about TGAAD a few months back, but it didn’t really cross my mind to jump on board. Then, a few days ago, I was thinking about the New Year and resolution (in the loosest sense) – wanting more time for the important things, thinking about getting my finances tightened up, and trying to declutter – and it hit me that now would be a good time to get on board.

I don’t really spend a lot, mostly because I shop almost exclusively at thrift stores. But as a grad student, I’d rather be saving than spending, and given how little I currently make, it’s still a higher percentage of my budget than I’d like. Because thrift stores are cheap, I also have a lot of clothing – nice, good quality clothing, but certainly enough, and probably more than I need – and I could use the room. Finally, I spend more time shopping than I would prefer, looking for just the right things at just the right price.

So, for TGAAD my goals are four-fold. Spend less. Bring fewer things home. Have more time for the important stuff. Get creative with what I have (and get rid of what just isn’t working). Pretty simple, I hope.

When I was considering joining, I found myself nervous. Could I really do this? (As a side note, I think the fact that it felt so monumental at the time is probably a sign that this is a good thing to be doing.) Now? I feel excited – not just as though a big decision has been made, but also as though many months of small ones have too. For the next eight months and change there are no more decisions about shopping or not, buying or not, or even just what to get. It feels freeing, which is a pleasant surprise.

The only question left, I think, is whether I try to further extend this diet to other elements of my shopping which, while also not hugely indulgent, add to the time, the expense, and the clutter of shopping (books and kitchenware, I’m looking at you).

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Dec 14
Lori W

Unbelievably, it’s already been a month (today!) since I last purchased any new clothes. To be honest, I haven’t missed shopping one bit. Of course, it’s the holidays and there are tons of errands/chores which normally wouldn’t interfere with my valuable shopping time, so that’s probably helped. Anyway, I’m thrilled — this is real progress for me!

I’m still going into my closet and finding stuff I completely forgot I had, so it could be MONTHS before the current inventory seems stale. I’m also perusing catalogs and magazines for new ideas which is not only great fun but keeps me on top of trends and keeps my outfits fresh.

When I was a lot younger, I’d get bored and do a closet “inventory,” counting my pants, shoes, jackets, dresses, etc. The numbers were alarming back then, before I had actual $$ to spend (and I had the credit card debt to prove it). I’d be far too embarrassed to do that now. (Why do I feel guilty for owning all this stuff?)

I’m continuing to purge by either donating/giving away as much as I can. The other day, I wore a gorgeous burgundy leather jacket to work that I really like yet which I rarely wear (it was found in a consignment shop at least 10 years ago). It fits beautifully and looked great, plus I got tons of compliments on it. There is a young woman at work (w/ two small children and tight funds) that I give clothes to, so when she complimented me on the jacket, I asked her to try it on. She did, and loved it, and now it’s hers. I wish she could wear my shoes! :)

I hope everyone is remaining on their shopping diet this holiday season. With all the sales/great deals going on right now, I’ve found it’s best if I just stay at home. I continue to delete emails from my favorite stores without going onto their sites, mainly out of fear that I’ll cave and order/buy something. I also continue to feverishly cling to the fact that I can buy shoes w/o guilt — I’m trying to save that as a “prize” if I get through something difficult and need a reward of sorts. However, I’m afraid when Spring clothes are in the stores, I will fall prey to their allure, but like any important task, I’m taking it one step at a time.

Be well, my fellow non-shoppers, and happy holidays!

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Dec 13
Sarah F

“The present in New York is so powerful that the past is lost.”- John Jay Chapman (broker who became president of the New York Stock Exchange)

As the holiday season rolls on, I have been pushed more and more to rethink the ways in which I spend my hard earned money. In the past 6months I will be honest and say that I have done a little shopping here and there, I’ve never really been one to go out on large spending sprees and although I do love shopping, it has never been my greatest vice. That being said, I am continuing to learn new things about myself as well as the ways in which people spend their hard earned income. I (for the most part) save and attempt to spend redirect my income towards things that I know I will hold close to my heart regardless of the season or the changing fashion trends, that thing is traveling, my true love. It has taken me many years to become a savvy traveler and I am currently two days back from my first trip to New York City. During my five-hour flight from Seattle to New York I had a lot of time to ponder how I managed to be so fortunate to be able to do such things and I have come to several conclusions; one of these conclusions being that it is most difficult to make the decisions than it is often to execute the task post decision making. Human’s will power is incalculable; sometimes we just need to see a goal at the end of our long winding roads to be able to make our decisions. By not buying that designer dress that was on sale from this past summer (amazing deal might I add) I was able to spend that same amount of money on another nice meal in New York (Kobe beef burger and dessert, so much better)! Every one of my decisions is a conscious thought out decision that I weigh out and consider as a tradeoff to my overall goals. Is the dress worth a train ticket? Would I buy these items if they weren’t on sale?

DSCF0945Being part of The Great American Apparel Diet (though now a fully active dieter) I now find myself questioning my purchasing choices beyond just my clothing. One of my personal vices is Starbucks and every time I go in to get my grande soy chi, I can’t help but question what I am trading for this one overly priced sometimes-daily purchase. During my trip to New York I was inspired in many new ways. Most of the clothing I saw during my little shopping adventures was consistently stylish (even though it was 30 degrees) but during my whole trip I held myself back purchasing many items and pushed myself to remember those tradeoffs and ask myself the important questions about why I’m even thinking of buying a new pair of black boots when I already have two. The streets, shops, and restaurants, of New York are glittered with holiday cheer and life, and I would not have been able to experience this if I had not asked those questions on a daily basis and put into perspective the trade-offs to my everyday choices. Trade-off in economic terms is defined as “losing one quality or aspect of something in return for gaining another quality or aspect. It implies a decision to be made with full comprehension of both the upside and downside of a particular choice.” In those split seconds at the register I have found this to be a greatly valuable piece of information, which has saved me money time and time again. Because I have been able to make these decisions I was able to do one of those things which I truly do love, seeing a new and beautiful place in this world and once again opening my eyes to the possibilities of forward progression and change in my future, life and career.

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Nov 29

Hello Again…

I live in northern Canada in a small Village called Fort Simpson. It maybe, maaybe, houses 1200 people…On a good day (and that’s probably pushing it). My community is on a small island where you can walk end to end in about twenty minutes. It’s fairly traditional with a good majority of the locals being First Nations people and the main economic contributors being the Territorial and Federal Governments.

With all this being said, you can imagine what type of shopping district we have here in town…I’ll give you a hint: It rhymes with Hero…now replace the “H” with a “Z”. The closest thing we have to a clothing store is our own trusty “Northern Store”. It’s the main hub of 2, yes TWO grocery stores. Let me tell you, the type of clothing found in said store is nothing to brag about. Actually, I’m pretty sure the Nordstrom changing rooms are bigger than the entire clothing section in this store.

Anyhow, that’s enough background info for the day. Yay for not shopping!

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Nov 10
Kimberly

There’s nothing like deciding you are not going to do something (i.e., buy clothes) to make you suddenly sensitive to temptation! I just returned from a business trip to DC, and I never realized before how much I use traveling to different cities as an inspiration for fashion. I like how women dress in Washington. It’s urban, but with quite the preppy feel, and without all the heavy clothes that you see (and that are required) in places like Boston. I felt very frustrated while I was there, and I realized it’s because I’m used to seeing great inspirational outfits on other women in other places and then going shopping to see if I can add a little bit of that flavor to my wardrobe. While this has been great fun in the past (as my Spanish sundress, funky British boots, jersey Australian tunic, and various Scottish cashmere scarves will attest), it’s something that I’m not doing this year, and I felt very deprived to realize that I wasn’t doing it. I didn’t really feel the need to buy other souvenirs, but I did feel like I was missing out a bit on the whole DC experience.

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Oct 30

Dame et Chien

After a year of no shopping, and hearing my cohorts who are now at the end of the diet talk about how they are still not shopping, I realize that I love that particular activity. More than ever. The year off only honed my taste level and made me more mindful, focused, and particular when I shop. I am better at it now. During the diet, I could see what fabrics failed me, wore out too fast, seemed like disposable clothes. I took a mental note of that and paid attention to the fact that three cheaply made sweaters are the same price as one great, long lasting one. I would rather have fewer things than things made with the idea that they can be tossed out because the item is so “cheap”.

I love shopping alone, I love shopping with my friends, I love finding out about new businesses, meeting the owners, and telling my clients where they might find what they are looking for. Even my salon on Queen Anne has a series of photos in each room, photos of women shopping in Paris. The photographer, Esther Sirotnik, uses digital film, but does not touch up the images, crop or change them. The shot above is the shot she captured that day. I love it that only the dog is aware. I adore these images (Ms. Sirotnik also has a book called Unexpected Paris) because it captures these women, who are all doing the same thing, but they are from all different parts of the world. The photos really do capture the feeling of why I love wandering through shops, the feel of fabrics, talking to the boutique owners about their businesses, seeing what kind of buyers they are and what they are passionate about.
You can see the photos on Monday, November 8th from 4PM to 7PM during the Olivine “pop up shop” we are having at my studio. Or go to Esther Sirotnik’s website. But I warn you….if you are still on the diet here looking at the photos is like a person off sugar looking at pictures of Trophy Cupcakes.

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